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the person you love should be a person who keeps you going; not pull you down, to be able to study; not stop your responsibilities. he/she should not be the person who only can make you dream dreams and hope on fictional stories.

this works both genders okay. no discrimination, haha. but, dont you agree? :)

that person should not stop you from doing what is right and put their on greedy-self for their own good. that person should not make you fantasize what isnt real, only to last for that period of time. if you have believed in them fully then you ngong lo. :P

but we are humans anyway right? thats why we need failures to have success. LEARN from it! dont be stupid and repeat your dirty footsteps. it wont be easy to wash it off after a while, you know?

that person should be your motivation to do things, whether or not in work, studies, chores or decision-making. that person is NOT your solution but helps you to look for solution. that person should also be a person who is able to help you face your fears and build your abilities up.

most of all, that person should love you for who you are because he/she loves you for who you are and what you do at the first place. =3